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Do you ever find someone ugly? Do you label and judge people for their color, body, and a little meat? Yes, we all do or did in amateur years. Do we live in an equalist society? Should we live in an ideal community? Yes. We do in our dreams. But we are all remorseful of the sins in the past because we are “surprisingly” not born wise. We learn as life goes by. I found some people obnoxious and disgusting when I was made fun of in former years. I was scorned and umpired for my acne, weight, and looks in the teenage that eventually led my silly mind to believe it is “tolerable” to judge and make fun of people. I have only grown up in a Gandhian nation but I don’t literally adhere to its principle of “Whoever hits you on the cheek, offer him the other also; and whoever takes away your coat, do not withhold your shirt from him either.” I think He has taken it from the Bible or so I read somewhere but let us come back to humanly infantile.


Adolescent hormones are too wild to show resistance to mockery and blatant burlesques. Teenage exemplifies a decisive stage in the development of a positive or negative body image. Many inducements exist during the teen years including transitions that have an emotional impact on one’s body shape, weight status, and appearance. We all go through those phases of being judged and judging others based on outlandish standards. People give unsolicited advice for clearing up zits or covering them up, to lose weight to look like Victoria Secret models. And, your mind responds, “whadda fudding fudge”


What is the ideal community?

Now that I have thankfully and finally grown up sanely, I LOATHE the idea of judging people based on color, race, religion, sexuality, or gender. I only judge people on whether or not they’re an asshole. It’s the same hate that has caused wars from Religion to gender and skin color. It’s the same fight that has led people to sit-ins and walk-outs.

I don’t like people being judged based on the color or texture of their skin.  I find that really offensive. This is mostly a common formulation engraved in our minds since childhood, we learn to judge people since childhood from home environment and society based on things that don’t even matter. Having Acne, bodily issues Isn’t Bad – But Why is our culture’s methodology to important issues so misguided?


The Equalist Society

We all have been judged for our color, acne, weight, height, and medical conditions at some or other time. And, I never say it’s only the women that suffer; I think all of us are together in this, Children, Adults, and Animals and whoever.

Don’t you say hey that dog is chubby and wobbly so he is cute but if a dog is malnourished and sick then he apparently loses the rights to be cute? And, you don’t want to love it anymore. Let alone humans, even dogs are judged and whatnot, people would rather like to buy a handsome and healthy looking dog than taking care of just a dog. Dogs are Dogs. All of them are the cutest. Wow, look at my attention span. Where are we!!!

So, Kids nowadays are “told’, “taught” and “force-fed” that it’s “wrong to treat people differently for the color of their skin or by any other standard.” And that’s beautiful, but the same preachers don’t practice it in real life in front of the same children. And that is where we lack figures of examples. Do you know some cultures get angry at folks with bad skin because they equate breakouts with “sin”? Our microclimate keeps changing because of the racial divide and juvenile standards and it’s disturbing. I think the progress that we as a whole have made toward equality and justice is mildly superficial.


Unfortunately, we still have people in the 21st century who believe they can label an entire group of people solely based on their designated race and lampooned standards. I don’t understand how people forget a simple fact as we all belong to the same human race and other arbitrary aspects (gender, religion, and sexuality are not under human control) is only going to destroy one another.

How can you help make an ideal community?

I don’t remember God giving me a multiple-choice questionnaire to choose my religion, race, gender before he splashed me onto the face of the earth. It used to annoy the fuck out of me before but now I realize my energy can be directed toward more positive things. I refuse to fight with people over their invasive propagandist’s theories, judgments, and hatred. I fight with my do-gooding and actions, by not judging people based on substandard aspects.image It is extremely important to avoid judging people on something as arbitrary as color, acne, the texture of the skin, sexuality, religion, and gender. Rather judge them on their deeds, benevolence, and compassion because that is something they are in control of.

No matter what your racereligionsexual orientation, gender identity, sex, etc are, everyone should be treated equally as long as they are a fine ass human causing no harm to others.


Dr Anita Deswal
Dr Anita Deswal

Dr. Anita is the brightest one over here with a PhD. in economics and sociology, and almost everything else. With 10+ years of experience as a professor, she brings expertise, knowledge, and metaphorical analogies to the table. A pro at gender & diversity, the education system, and maths, Anita is a gem of a professional.

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